The swinging lifestyle is not a lifestyle for everyone. I’ve seen literally tons of couples get involved in swinging for all the wrong reasons. Swinging can ruin marriages and break friendships. There are right and wrong reasons for swinging. If you are entering the lifestyle for one of the following reasons then you should NOT be a swinger.
1. You have a sexually transmitted disease. I shouldn’t have to say this but if you are currently infected with HIV, Aids, herpes, syphilis, gonorrhea, crabs or any other form of a sexually transmitted disease you should not attempt to become a swinger. Swinger groups are very tight knit and eventually someone will ask you if you are STD free.
2. You are looking to cheat on a partner, spouse or significant other. This is never reason to start swinging. If you are married and anyone in the swinging community finds out that you are using swinging to cheat you will be black balled from all parties and events.
3. You are trying to get back at a partner, spouse or significant other for cheating on you. Again this is not a good way to get into swinging. What would happen if you decided to forgive this person and then had to explain your own cheating. What if you were wrong about the whole thing to begin with? Swingers don’t like to be used any more than anyone else and playing with another couple for the sake of revenge is just using them.
4. You want to convince your wife to do another woman. This has become such a common occurrence that…Read the rest
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